Family & Friends Network – December 17

Come and join us to discover how family and friends can be supported and involved in residents’ lives at Menno Home and Hospital.

Thursday, December 17th, 2015

1:30 – 2:30pm
Menno Home Chapel

Refreshments will be served.
We are looking forward to seeing you!

Facilitators:
Dan Janzen – Social Worker
Ruth Neufeld – Social Services

Five Wheelchairs Donated to Menno Place Seniors!

When the Clearbrook Mennonite Church on Peardonville Road in Abbotsford, BC came to the realization that they would need to close their doors, they began to pray for ways that their remaining funds could benefit charities that were close to their hearts. This was difficult after 62 years of vibrant ministry in the Clearbrook area of Abbotsford, BC.

One of the practical questions that needed resolution was how to disperse the remaining funds of the church. A long-time member of Clearbrook Mennonite Church immediately had a suggestion. Her husband spent some time as a resident at Menno Place when he was ailing at the end of his life. It was there that this church member became aware of the need for good condition wheelchairs for the residents and recommended a sizeable donation to Menno Place to purchase brand new basic wheelchairs for residents in need.

With the donation from Clearbrook Mennonite Church, Menno Place was able to purchase 5 wheelchairs with specialized cushions and tension-adjustable backs. When an elderly senior is no longer mobile, the occupational therapist assesses their mobility needs and may recommend a wheelchair for the individual. Historically, the cost of a wheelchair is not covered by most care facilities.

On January 1, 2016, all residential care facilities in BC will be required to provide a basic wheelchair to residents who are prescribed one as a medically required piece of mobility equipment. At this time the Ministry of Health is in discussions about how this will be funded.

At Menno Place, we are grateful for the donations from the community that provide us with the capacity to better serve our elderly and frail residents. Thank you to Clearbrook Mennonite Church for considering the practical needs of seniors and making this significant contribution!

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Menno Home Christmas Memorial Service: December 8th at 6:30pm

NOTE: LOCATION CHANGE – SERVICE TO TAKE PLACE AT MENNO HOSPITAL CHAPEL

You are invited to join us as we celebrate and honour the lives of our Menno Home residents that have passed away since last Christmas.

Date: Tuesday, December 8, 2015

Time: 6:30pm

Location: Menno Hospital Chapel

Refreshments Following the Service: Multi-Purpose Room

Join us in the multi-purpose room following the service, for light refreshments and an opportunity to visit with residents, families and friends.

Family and Friends Group – Thursday, December 17th: 1:30pm – 2:30pm

We would like to extend an invitation for you to join us at our Family & Friends group meeting on Thursday, December 17 from 1:30-2:30 in Menno Home Chapel. We will have 2 guest presenters: Sharon Simpson, Director of Communications & Stakeholder Engagement and Joanne Sweeney, Volunteer Manager for Menno Place. We would also like to invite your loved one for this special Christmas meeting to enjoy a time of sharing and refreshment together.

Family & Friends provides an opportunity for two-way communication with the care facility, but also is a forum to share experiences, learn and exchange information. Sharing with others can be supportive and encouraging.

We value your input, so if you have suggestions for a guest presenter either from the facility or in the community, please let us know. Learning about dementia, caregiver stress, depression, legal issues, etc helps us all.

Best Wishes,

Dan Janzen (Social Worker) and Ruth Neufeld (Social Services)

Family & Friends Network – November 19th

Come and join us to discover how family and friends can be supported and involved in residents’ lives at Menno Home and Hospital.

Thursday, November 19, 2015

1:30 – 2:30pm
Menno Home Chapel

Refreshments will be served.
We are looking forward to seeing you!

Facilitators:
Dan Janzen – Social Worker
Ruth Neufeld – Social Services


Fall Calendar:

Time: 1:30pm – 2:30pm
Location: Menno Home Chapel
Thursday, December 17

Annual Memorial Service – Menno Hospital and The Apartments

The Annual Memorial Service for families and friends of deceased at Menno Hospital and The Apartments takes place Tuesday, November 10th at 6:30pm at the Menno Hospital Chapel.

Note: Menno Home holds their Annual Memorial Service in December – date TBA

Keeping Vigil – An Interview with Ingrid Schultz on the Death Matters Live Radio Show

Ingrid Schultz, Chaplain at Menno Place was interviewed recently on the new radio show, Death Matters Live. This hour-long show on Vancouver Co-op Radio brings the matters of death, dying and loss to life.

Concerned that there wasn’t enough opportunity to talk about death and dying in our culture, the show was the brainchild of Jeffrey Young, Celebrant. He invited four other hosts to join him on the show which has an interview format.

Sharon Simpson, Director of Communications and Stakeholder Engagement at Menno Place was one of the four hosts invited to join the hosting team. Although she has never been in a recording studio nor hosted a radio show, she jumped at the opportunity.

“It was exciting to think that I could be a part of the conversation about death and dying. At Menno Place, we know what it is to support residents and families in their final days. We know what is required to support our residents who are experiencing the kinds of existential suffering that can come at end of life.”

On the first show as lead host, Sharon couldn’t think of a better initial guest than Ingrid Schultz, Chaplain at Menno Place. “Ingrid’s capacity to walk along side of others while they are jouneying at the end of life has inspired me to want to do the same”, said Sharon, “I wanted her to share her thoughts with the listening audience.”

“I had recently lost a good friend, Bob Harms, to cancer and spent time at his bedside in Hospice. I wanted to share the experience and the value of support in the final days, hours and minutes of a life. Ingrid and I have talked about “keeping vigil” and I appreciated her insight and experience,” said Sharon.

To listen to the broadcast of the show, Keeping Vigil,

 

Seventy-Eight Seniors Join in the National Senior’s Day Photo Shoot

National Seniors Day was great fun at Menno Place on Thursday, October 1, 2015.

Seniors living in Menno Apartments were invited to participate in a professional-quality photoshoot. Receptionists and the Recreation team booked seniors into time slots throughout the day to have their hair and makeup done – and to pose for professional portraits as well as silly photobooth pictures.

“I had an idea to do something a little different,” said Rylee Yurick, Recreation staff at The Apartments, “I just didn’t know it would grow to be THIS big!”

More than 75 seniors took part in the energy-filled day, many hearing about it from their friends and joining in throughout the day. The furniture was removed from the first floor lounge in Terrace East and the lounge was transformed into make-up, hair and photo stations.

Special thanks goes to the volunteers who gave their time to do the make-up and hair for our seniors.

“This is really emotional for me”, said one of the hairdressing students from Gentebella Beauty Academy, “I feel like we are giving such joy and helping people who are living history. I am so moved by these seniors.”

The students at the Gentebella Beauty Academy were accompanied by their instructor. She shared how they had recently completed a book that focused on the power of kindness between each other. “What a perfect opportunity for the students to practice what they are learning about the power of kindess”, she said, “This opportunity came at the perfect time in their schooling. Can we do it every year?”

Shopper’s Drug Mart also sent two of their valued employees to volunteer for a day with seniors – what is the motivation? One of the volunteer makeup artists explained how she had recently lost her grandmother. They were very close and she was determined to give out of her love and remembrance of her grandmother. When the opportunity arose, she jumped at it.

“This day is so moving”, she shared, “Everyone is having so much fun and it’s so incredibly special that we can play a part in it.”

Some of the seniors were shy about wearing makeup. One senior in her 90’s confessed that she’s never had any makeup on her face, “I want to try it before I die”, she said. Others were fearful that they would be done up “to look like a clown”. Instead, the professional makeup specialists chose colors and shades that brought out the beautiful features in the senior’s faces.

Even the men got involved! They waited their turn and chose some of the props for the photo booth. Wigs, hats, fascinators, ties and picture frames created fun-filled photos for the seniors. All of the participants will receive printed photos and the digital files of their photos.

As is the practice at Menno Place, couples were supported in their participation. Several spouses walked over to residential care to fetch their loved one for the photos. They enjoyed an adventure with their loved one that will be accompanied by a memorable photo. “The photo shoot was fun,” said a husband who supports his wife who suffers from dementia, “Thanks for all you are willing to do for us oldsters – it’s just wonderful.”

The Finance Team at Menno Place came to see what was happening. “Wow! This is what it’s all about”, said a member of the team, “This is what we do it for…. the residents, it’s all for the residents.” It was deeply moving to see the joy, the pride, the laughter and the appreciation from the residents.

The volunteers from Gentebella Beauty Academy and Shopper’s Drug Mart were encouraged to guess the ages of the seniors for whom they were doing makeup and hair. When asked about one senior in particular, the hairstylist guessed she was 86. She is actually 105 – the oldest resident living at Menno Place.

“What’s the secret to your beautiful skin?”, was overheard at the makeup station. “I’m a little bit English” was the reply!

“The day couldn’t have gone any better”, said Rylee Yurick, the organizer, “I’m just so so happy that we could give this to our seniors today.”

She followed up the day with a thank-you note to the volunteers and staff, “Thank you so much to everyone who helped put on our first National Seniors Day Photo Shoot!… to see this small vision come to life and see the residents beam with confidence. I cannot thank you enough.”

 

 

 

Family & Friends Support Network – October 15th

Join us to discover how family and friends can be supported and involved in residents’ lives at Menno Home and Hospital.

Thursday, October 15, 2015

1:30 – 2:30pm
Menno Home Chapel

Refreshments will be served.
We are looking forward to seeing you!

Facilitators:
Dan Janzen – Social Worker
Ruth Neufeld – Social Services


Fall Calendar:

Time: 1:30pm – 2:30pm
Location: Menno Home Chapel

Thursday, November 19
Thursday, December 17

What people are saying about Grandparent’s Day! PLUS… a Winner!

Through our Friends and Family Email Newsletter, we invited people to give us their feedback on the Grandparent’s Day held on Saturday, September 12th. There were gracious comments about having more food, improving parking signage and having more seating.
We also held a draw for those who provided their responses through the online survey. The winner of the $50 gift certificate to a local restaurant is JUDIE SUDA!

Here are the comments that people shared as highlights of the day:

My grandchildren enjoyed looking at the finches and working on the crossword puzzles in the activity room after they went to the washroom. 
Seeing such a great turnout for the day!
 
As a daughter of a resident, I enjoyed the interaction between my mother and her grandchildren & great grandchildren (my grandchildren). She felt happy to share her “home” with them. They enjoyed lots of fun activities! I’m sure they’ll attend the next event.
Well done!
 
It was so festive – great idea – everyone so happy – thanks to everyone for their hard work!
 
The fact that my mom could enjoy the grandkids and they could have fun at grandma’s house! The bouncy castles and cotton candy and popcorn were a hit for the kids. It great!!
 
Watching my Grandma watch my nephew blow bubbles. The kids loved the train bouncy castle & cotton candy.
 
To see my two daughters from Philadelphia and Kamloops and my granddaughter with her adorable little one and a half year old daughter from Abbotsford attend the happy atmosphere!

 
Being able to bring the grandkids for a fun day with great grandma knowing there would be lots of fun things for them to do. Also it was my sons birthday that day – he is now 33 – but he too enjoyed all the food. It was a well run, spectacular event, with loads of food, and we really enjoyed the drummers!
 
Seeing all the happy faces and the wonderful feeling of community, which I love about Menno Place. We met some family and friends that go back along ways. We both had ‘bunless hot dogs’ . . . good for the waistline. 
 
Having four generations of family together to watch the kids have fun.